This is my experience exactly.
Tape can often have more dynamic expression, leading edge as you explain. However, I have found a run of fine grain or sameness to the sound that I am especially sensitive to. This is with a deHavilland repro. Someone locally who has a substantial tape collection.. many hundreds of tapes and dozens of machines including big Studers says the coveted tube repro that many consider top of the line does not float his boat at all and he sold it for the deHavilland.... so go figure.
I get more finesse and detail ( not artificial brightness) out of my optimized phono chain. With some albums dynamic expression is greater than tape as well. The LP format is not limited if engineered optimally.
If you're into the format and the chase for the software that is closest to the performance then I totally get it. Otherwise, if you've optimized your phono, like most here have done to the SOTA, then I think tape can be easily challenged. On the software front, tape makes absolutely no sense for expense or selection- this is a real deterrent for me.
OTOH, if you get a fully done Studer say 807, 810 + a repro and a good linestage you probably have far less invested than most of us here on than a vinyl front end . Its the software that becomes to limiting at that point.
YMMV
I remember when for 5 mins I was seriously considering tape, I got an email from a guy in the industry who's been there and done that for decades.
His message was that tape divided into 3 categories.
All out mind melting epiphany from maybe a maximum of a third of titles. SQ to make you forget the medium, right there w the musicians. No vinyl can come close.
The next third very very good, but more a variation on what you can get from a top tt setup. So, great SQ, but not one to throw the tt out for.
Final third often quite poor, or at best average and unengaging, deflating any expectation bias. Vinyl 99.999% likely to be way better.
The ironic thing is, what you surmised would be a great tape eg 50s 60s jazz or vocals could easily be in the poor category on tape. 80s pop and rock, overproduced and dense, often in the top category, defying logic.
And NO way of telling Lol.
Seems like a crapshoot. Of the two or three suppliers who sent me lists of $400-$800 tapes, there were up to 200 much loved albums I would have killed for if I could be guaranteed they'd 90% sound stellar.
But to spend $30k+, and only possibly predict $10k worth would blow my brain, $10k would be great but not much better than my existing vinyl, and the remaining $10k poor, I judged that if I went this route, I was wayyyy too rich for my own good Lol.